I see it all the time, when I start working with clients, I ask why they havenâ€™t hit their goals. Typically, one of the first things I hear is time. When I ask where are you spending your time. Many of you are spending your time doing shit you hate, saying yes when you should say no or doing something that could easily be delegated or simply not done!
We as women put so much pressure on ourselves. Pressure to be â€œthe bestâ€ –the best Mom, employee, spouse, girlfriend, and friend, you name it. The mind-chatter can be deafening, is there room any other thoughts.
Here is where you and I talk about harmony. The band of your life is gets out of tune from time to time. Let me be the first to break it down for you, itâ€™s hard to be â€œperfectâ€ and live a full life. You arenâ€™t present when your mind chatter is always yelling â€œcoulda, woulda or shouldaâ€, as Susan Powter use to shout STOP THE INSANITY! Don’t know who she is GTS â€“ google that shit. ðŸ˜‰
Harmony is the word I use instead of balance. Life will never really be balanced but we can start to fine tune band. It starts with setting your priorities and you can come pretty close to achieving a sense of balance.
As children we are taught to not say no. Unfortunately, this rarely transfers over to adulthood. One thing a mentor of mine told me early on as I was struggling with perfectionism, she said no is a complete sentence. I donâ€™t need to go into a long dissertation as to why Iâ€™m not doing something. You
donâ€™t need to be rude, but just say no I wonâ€™t be able to
Lastly if something isnâ€™t a hell yes, then itâ€™s a hell no!
Think right now what are some things you are doing that arenâ€™t hell yeses.
Can you either stop doing it OR delegate it?
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